The next best thing to an instructional manual, tried-and-true parenting books are an invaluable resource for understanding your baby's development, including what to expect and what to be (and not to be) concerned about. Have several books on hand for cross-referencing -- each will contain valuable nuggets and also less helpful material that in time you will feel comfortable disregarding.

Having a new baby can be an exhausting, overwhelming experience. In addition to family and friends, there are online services that offer assistance, including services that introduce you to potential helpers.